A childhood and teenage friend of OH started going off the rails a few years ago, my OH decided to cut all contact as he was presenting quite dangerous (he’d even attempted to kick our door in for money and claimed it wasn’t him).
He got put into prison a couple of years ago for some heinous crimes. Attempted murder, threats to rape and some more disgusting things. He’s been given 21 years in prison and has recently made attempts to contact all old friends etc and even message my DH (on SM). Well my DH told him to fuck off and blocked him. Anyway MIL has him as a friend, so I asked her about this and she’s said that she’s messaging him asking how he’s getting on and hopes he’s ok etc! We’re absolutely livid. He’s a disgusting piece of shit and has very probably been giving this thing information about us. I have tried to explain the crimes he has been convicted of and her reply was that he’s doing his time etc. He put a lot of people thru living hell including my OH and our family. We’ve made it clear we won’t have anything to do with her If she carries on contact yet she’s still got him as a friend etc , liking his pics. We’ve decided to cut her off. She’s baffled and can’t understand why? I feel like this isn’t real , she’s such a weirdo!