Sexual touching in presence of children

[Souvlaki]

Would your dh ever touch you over your clothes sexually in the same room as your children were watching tv? How sound you react / feel about this?

Hell no. Completely inappropriate and he'd get short shrift if he tried.

I would feel uncomfortable with that.

God no. I would be furious with him.

He’d get shrugged off as subtly as possible and as soon as we were alone I’d read him the fucking riot act. Completely inappropriate and is in fact classified as a type of child abuse.

(I’m assuming by “sexual touching” you mean more than just a cuddle. Playful touching - e.g honking boobs, poking bum etc I wouldn’t count as “sexual”)

what you mean by sexual touching.

A pat on the bum as you walk past is quite different to him trying to rub your private parts or full on trying to engage in sexual activity.

Did you post about this before?

🤣😀😀 ‘honking boobs’ 🤣🤣🤣

Touching private parts over clothing in a manner aimed at arousing me. Makes me feel very uncomfortable.

Affectionately rubbing your hip?
Or stroking your breast?

Nor posted about this before.
I wondered if my reaction was normal or was it prudish.

No no no not appropriate

God no that's not on at all. Tell him to fucking stop

That’s actually classed as sexual abuse

it makes you uncomfortable.
there's your answer. you don't need us to tell you.
why do you let him do this. when did it start.

No not normal!! And me snd Dh are quite relaxed generally!!!

But foreplay in front of children is clearly but acceptable

@Souvlaki

Touching private parts over clothing in a manner aimed at arousing me. Makes me feel very uncomfortable.

That’s weird and should not be done in front of kids. No my OH wouldn’t do that...he does sometimes squeeze my bum but I don’t really like that to be honest and stop him if I am not comfortable.

No that is not good at all!!! Poor kids and poor you, you need to tell him it is not OK to do that with the kids in the room!!!!

is he the father of the children ?

Not appropriate at all

If the ‘kids’ are less than a year old, they have no clue what you are doing.
Any older than that, I’d say it’s highly inappropriate!

Yes he’s their dad. We we divorcing. Hec St or the a couple of weeks with us over the summer when I thought we might get bank together but he got too confident abs started behaving like this .he graced my crotch when I was washing up and then threw a huge stroo when I accused him of doing a Donald trump- acted hugely hurt and offended at mr “ calling him Donald trump”. He has pushed my boundaries for years snd I’m just looking back at things and how I felt about them anc it’s helpful to know how others would react.

No, this is abusive towards you, and the children. Wrong.

@Souvlaki

Touching private parts over clothing in a manner aimed at arousing me. Makes me feel very uncomfortable.

Whoah!!! No! Not appropriate!

Joke ok but actually to arouse you - totally completely wrong. Weird.

My friends ex is only allowed supervised contact because of behaviour like this.

Of course it's not right. If a child reported this to someone at school, it would be investigated by the safeguarding lead. Might not necessarily lead to the involvement of social services, but it would be recorded.