Do all online relationships start by nudes?

[robin04031402]

Or am I just speaking to the wrong people?

I'm in my early 20s and every guy I have spoken to online has either mentioned nudes or sent nudes within hours of adding me on social media.

Is there really any hope of meeting a decent guy online or is sending nudes just the norm nowadays?

Never ever received nudes. Do you have any pics on your profile which are revealing e.g. cleavage showing or in a bikini ? Many guys will take this to be an indication you're up for casual sex so could be why they're swnsing nude pics. I've noticed that profiles where the men are topless they're nearly always on there for casual sex so I always skip these profiles even if I like the look of the guy.

*sending

They do it as a power thing. As in you have no choice whether to receive it or not.
Vile.
It's a modern day flashing.
Block block block

I did online dating about 10 years ago. Met my husband through it! I never had nudes or dick pics sent, I don’t remember any requests for them either. I was mostly on paid for sites which I think attracted more serious types. I didn’t do instant messaging either - just a few emails and then would meet the person. I always recommend online dating to friends as I had a good experience for the most part.

There are some twats about that think the meat and 2 veg is attractive

I reply with a lot of laughing emojis 😂 🤣

Thank you everyone for your replies!

I didn't think it was normal so it's nice to have the reassurance.

Good luck to anyone in the world of OLD

xx

@hummusandpitta

good luck!

Hope it goes well xx

If any guy sends me dick pics I send em pictures of the catheter I think is most suited. Normally it has the desired effect that they unmatch me . Tbh it didn't happen often but I am nearly 50 and maybe that helps...

Ugh. No. Block and persevere.