after much soul searching told my dp i don't love him.HELP ME!

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this morning i couldn't hold it in any longer and told him i am not in love with him anymore.
he wasn't overly shocked, but we have been together 14 years and have a 2 year old.
we are both in pieces about our family unit being destroyed. Ds has just woken and dp asked if he could have some time alone with him, i can hear them cuddling in our bed and dp is sobbing.....
What the fuck have i done? i feel like i'm dying here........please someone help me......

i'm back at home now. Dp has been up and down (to be expected)....but we are still communicating brilliantly, and determined that while practical stuff needs sorting out (money, house etc) we need to find a balance between getting what we both feel is fair and not falling out about it.
thankyou all so much for helping me through this very difficult time...........while the breakdown of our relationship is sad we are both now in agreement that it has been the right thing for all three of us.

Hi QR

I am so glad that you are feeling better and that you and your DP are sorting things in a nice friendly way and, that you are both in agreement.

I sincerely hope it continues that way for you

Take good care xx