AIBU for being annoyed with "partner"

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My "partner's" ex will only allow him to see his child at her house with her yesterday she attacked me when I dropped him off by pulling my head thru my open car window and ripping my hair out (I called the police as had it on video) but it turns out my partner tells her things about me like that Iam trying to get my child's father to pay child support even though he chose not to see her and about arguments we have and the fact we don't use condoms during sex, also after she did what she did yesterday he walked into her house and left me alone during the day and told me he would break up with me if I phoned the police! The whole thing is completly childish as I have not even said a bad word to this "girl" she also chose to do all this in front of her poor child! Am I being unreasonable to be angry he discusses things with her and went of with his ex and his daughter instead of coming home with me to make sure I'm okay as I was pretty shook up by the whole thing and was shaking the rest of the drive hom? He says his ex will always come before me as she's his baby's mum is that normal?

First of all your partner should be very concerned with the lovely mother of his child attacking his new partner. I’d be worried about my child in her care! Sounds like they’re still seeing Each other hence why she got jealous. I can’t believe he let her attack you, at the very least he should’ve taken dc back with you two until she sorts her head out. Telling her you two don’t use protection is probably his way of making her jealous. Also telling her things about your ex and child is just so wrong. lTB, OP! X

I'm another one who thinks this whole thing could have been avoided.

Why did you drop him off? Why were you ready filming with your phone out?

And why aren't you using contraception? You'll probably get pregnant if you don't (or is that your intention - if it is, you need to know that the most important decision a woman makes is who she chooses to be the father of her child_)

Good God, it sounds like a Jeremy Kyle Roadshow!

He's happy to watch you get battered. What more do you need to know?

I hope you're not already pregnant by this prize specimen.

we stopped using protection as we was getting on great

If I'm 'getting on great' with someone I might ask them out. It doesn't strike me as a reason to have unprotected sex with a nutter.

He is immature and you need to pick up your dignity and leave.
He told his 'ex' about the no contraception to wind her up and make her jealous and worried that you were going to have a baby with him.
You dropping him off was a red rag to her. She thinks you are interfering and getting involved.
There are millions of men out there. Drop this loser.

Jesus. This is a really shit relationship. Why are you with somebody who would treat you like this?