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Songs which have helped you after you split up with a wrong'un?

123 replies

Interestedwoman · 11/02/2020 11:24

One of my ex's exs sent me this song, she said it helped her when she split up with an abusive partner. I love it

Any of the rest of you got some songs that have helped you when things have ended with an unsuitable man?

OP posts:
mamamalt · 12/02/2020 01:49

Before he cheats- Carrie Underwood
Stay - sugarland (give it til the end when she tells him where to go! I'm up off my knees..!)
You'll think of me - Keith urban

I think county music is your friend right now! They love heart break

SingingMyOwnSpecialSong · 12/02/2020 02:04

The lyrics of Cartwheels by Ward Thomas helped me make the decision to leave my abusive husband. When Somebody Loved Me from Toy Story 2 was my feeling sorry for myself song and Should’ve Been You by Imelda May which was released around the time I split with my him was my getting angry and knowing I’d done the right thing song. I played then all a lot!

Interestedwoman · 12/02/2020 02:04

These are all fantastic- thanks! xxxx

My friend sang Gloria Gaynor ‘I will survive’ AT him in a crowded pub. LOUDLY

@AmelieTaylor LOL I love that! How is she now?

@caketimeisover Thanks for the playlist- that's great :)

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NeverTalksToStrangers · 12/02/2020 02:10

A good chunk of the Taylor swift back catalogue. It is what she's famous for afterall. Grin

Dear John
Death by a thousand cuts
Clean
All too well
I knew you were trouble
We are never ever getting back together
Shoulda said no
White horse
The story of us
Sad, beautiful, tragic
All you had to do was stay

There are more...
Bless her, she did have quite the time of it.

Justawaterformeplease · 12/02/2020 02:35

Let it go - James Bay

Jaycee74 · 12/02/2020 07:09

Oh pixie rabbit - I’d forgotten all about radio dept. Just putting Lesser Matters on Spotify.

Jaycee74 · 12/02/2020 07:11

Can we have an alternative list - for people who can’t do Rihanna or Gloria Gaynor?

Jaycee74 · 12/02/2020 07:14

Classics like this : m.youtube.com/watch?v=aWR1h-5EzUo
Belted out full volume!!

Jaycee74 · 12/02/2020 07:16

The drummer in that band is a GOD

cowboy · 12/02/2020 07:20

The Ok song by Orson

CliffStitorus · 12/02/2020 07:38

This one😁

tomatosoup4 · 12/02/2020 07:45

Best thing I never had- Beyonce

PetitsGateaux · 12/02/2020 07:45

Funkier than a mosquito’s tweeter by Nina Simone
Living well is the best revenge by REM

tomatosoup4 · 12/02/2020 07:48

Cry me out- pixey Lott

Opentooffers · 12/02/2020 09:28

Disintegration - the Cure
Kingdom of rain - The The & Sinaed O'Connor.
Stay With Me - You, me at 6

caketimeisover · 13/02/2020 10:04

@woooooo OMG "The Dickhead Song" is AMAZING!!

Grape0 · 13/02/2020 10:08

Rachel Platten - Fight song

I used to play it first thing getting out of bed every morning - it's the only thing that worked!

ArthurDentsSpaceTowel · 13/02/2020 14:27

A Little Time, by the Beautiful South. The last verse always makes me smile.

NoMoreDickheads · 20/02/2020 21:59

(Hi this is Interestedwoman, this is my new handle.

Thanks to the sister(s) that recommended Best Thing I Never Had.'

'You showed your ass and I, I saw the real you!'

You don't know how right that is Grin Grin Grin

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/3820431-Tell-me-some-disturbing-wrong-things-about-your-exes-maybe-lighthearted

Pinkbonbon · 21/02/2020 03:40

Kelly clarcson 'since you've been gone'

NoMoreDickheads · 08/03/2020 00:57

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!

'I almost crumbled
I almost fell
I almost gave you everything under your spell

You almost mattered
You almost won
You held my fears and weakness
In the web you spun

Took what you wanted
But you're leaving with nothing {...}

I almost crumbled
I almost fell
I almost gave you everything but you've failed'

BatshitCrazyWoman · 08/03/2020 07:25

Rolling in the Deep - Adele

I'm not one for revenge but I love that song!

polcrumb · 08/03/2020 08:58

bloody motherf*king sshole by martha wainwright. clues in the title.

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