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so today it got 100% worse now all his family are threatening me too

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neverfeltthisdown23 · 04/12/2019 00:37

hi please someone talk i dont know what to do anymore....
today my abusive partner has turned up ay my work kicking off the male members of staff had to put me in the back and go out to him incase he attacked me ....
he left my baby there with me after my manager threatened to call the police...
hes took all my money my babys buggy his car seat etc and went to stay with his mum i assume...
out of sheer desperation i told his dad what had happened what hes like the contant weed smoking making me pay for everything and that he is now getting violent ( i didnt even tell him the half of it ) but anyway a bad move , i thought his dad would care for the sake of his grandson .... he knew he was heavily on weed yrs ago but thought he gave up so no big suprise with that but i guess the agression may be..
his mum has bipolar and very unstable so i thought best to try him
now all night ive had threats off his dad and mum telling me things like " you are digging yourself a big hole accusing him of this and i better drop it as it wont end well for me, that they will report me to ss to aay im an unfit mother a drug addict and abusive to him and mentally unstable and try and have the baby took off me
he was my only form of childcare while i work ( he doesnt work and doesnt pay a penny for his child or his keep ) and ive had calls laughing from them saying now u loose your job this is whats called karma
he took all the money i have i cant even buy shopping and now i cant work he has the babys buggy and carseat so i cant leave the house
and they are all laughing saying no one will believe me as the bitter ex that hes violent and they will believe 3 people saying the same thing
im going out of my mind with worry i could ( just about ) hack the torture he puts me.through but i cant fight against 3 people.ill never win
and i need to work i have no money for my baby
im so shocked none of them care about the baby that i cant buy his food etc
hoping someone is around to chat as i feel terrified of whats to come

OP posts:
SuperLoudPoppingAction · 04/12/2019 23:26

Well done for fixing your Internet!

Marac might sound a bit scary but you're no longer together so if a social worker did come to learn about the situation they would see you were trying to make a better life for your family.

Dery · 05/12/2019 13:31

Re non-molestation orders, contact the National Centre for Domestic Violence, they will talk you through the process and should be able to refer you to a law firm which will help you prepare the papers free of charge.

Pinkbonbon · 05/12/2019 15:12

The risk assessment should be fine for you to take provided you aren't living with ex anymore.

As for his nasty mum and her spooky spells, black magic tends to cause more harm to the caster than it does anyone else, if that's one less thing to worry about for ya.

Next time she calls you, don't answer/hang up straight away. You don't need to listen to her bile. Or anyone else's as a matter of fact.

Get one of those non molestation orders sorted, take one out on the whole lot of the crazy gits.

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