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I've just had an email saying...

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MascaraOHara · 08/08/2007 15:59

that they know something about my xp but they're not sure I'm going to want to know..

I've told them I want to know and am now sat here with stomach in knots waiting for a response. Think it was very cruel of them.

I expect that the news will be that he has got back with his ex and I know we've split but it's still gonna hurt like I don't know what when I get the confirmation. We only split mid July and I'm now wondering if there was something going on.. it was only a few weeks ago he was telling me I was the only person he'd ever loved etc

feel sick.

and pissed off with person who emailed me the way they did and for not replying. Will also mean friends know and nobody has told me...

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zippitippitoes · 09/08/2007 13:09

yep he is not looking for a girlfriend he is looking for someone to have 4 kids for him...he never thought of mentioning this in the 8 years we were together..he says he didn't know

so not a great deal I could do about that..i offered to try for one (which if it did work might have been twins). but he said no he wanted 4..so byebye but I still love you

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MascaraOHara · 09/08/2007 13:11

when did that happen zippi?.. only cared to mention it after 8 years! idiot

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Carmenere · 09/08/2007 13:11

Oh Zippi, how hurtful, you poor thing

zippitippitoes · 09/08/2007 13:15

end of June...he was out and i rang his mobile which came on his pocket without him realising it and he was arranging a flat I overheard it all for about 15 minutes trying to convince myself it was something else

when he came back i said and who is getting a flat then? he didn't know I'd heard

he went that evening

that morning we chose the tiles for the house we are building ...now I'm building

anyway have a nice birthday and hope you see this bloke!

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MascaraOHara · 09/08/2007 13:18

Jesus Zipp - what a bastard! sorry.

God for you carrying on with building the house.

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themoon66 · 09/08/2007 13:21

Oh Zippi I remember that thread... horrible way to find out he was leaving .

MellowMa · 09/08/2007 13:22

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Dior · 09/08/2007 13:33

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MascaraOHara · 09/08/2007 13:45

men eh.

Just heard his ex is shipping her new lover out on Saturday after they were talking in the pub Saturday night.. all very convenient.

and I'm now going on a date tomorrow night witha very luuurvly man who I've oggled for an age. eek

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Dior · 09/08/2007 13:47

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MascaraOHara · 09/08/2007 13:50

shall I start a seperate "Can't men be fuckers" thread

Oh. my. god. I'm going on a date tomorrow night.

With a man who until 3 weeks ago when he walked passed me and tickled the back of my neck (had my hair all cut off after I dumped xp) I'd never even had the slightest incling he fancied me back..

eek.. clothes.. legs.. shoes.. bikini line... arrrggghhh

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Dior · 09/08/2007 13:51

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MascaraOHara · 09/08/2007 13:59

LMAO, I did say until then! it was just after everyone found out me a p had split.

OK hairy legs? don't know what we are doing yet? so can leave legs stubbly and wear trousers or jeans.

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Dior · 09/08/2007 14:01

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MascaraOHara · 09/08/2007 15:48

Ok, just had a text on my work phone saying that he'll pick me up and that I need to dress for dinner but that's all he's telling me as it's a surprise.

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iota · 09/08/2007 15:53

have a lovely time MOH

zippitippitoes · 09/08/2007 15:55

that sounds lovely and promising

WelshBoris · 09/08/2007 15:59

Zippi, I didn't know it was for someone else? Sorry I didn't get back to you about visiting but it was the same week as XP was reading my posts on here so my head went.

MOH, he's a cock. And you're better off without him. Enjoy your night out.

That sicky feeling in the tummy is awful

zippitippitoes · 09/08/2007 16:14

it is even worse than for someone else..it is for someone else he hasn't met yet but wants to have 4 children with, he says hopefully he will love her but if not liking her will have to do...I can't understand why he wouldn't see if we could have 1/2 children seeing as he loves me reputedly

anyway he came in to my life with all his possessions in a bin bag and has left it with the same...I have gained an extra house in that time so I have two and he has a tiny flat he can't afford the rent on..so his loss (I don't feel like that but I'm tryin)

maybe see you sometime anyway boris as long as it wasn't me (i thought it was)

zippitippitoes · 09/08/2007 16:15

I meant I hope I do see you and sorry about your dp reading stuff

WelshBoris · 09/08/2007 16:15

Did he meet her on the internet?

No it 100% wasn't you I promise

zippitippitoes · 09/08/2007 16:17

he can't use a computer never mind not owning one..no she is in his dreams as yet..a hope, she doesn't exist

Girly · 09/08/2007 16:38

zippi, sound like you are well rid of him and his bin bags!

Mascaraohara, I am all excited for you, have you chosen an outfit yet?