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Inviting someone to your house after first date!

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monkeytoad35 · 04/09/2019 20:13

Just need some advice really before I make a stupid mistake!

I've met a guy on tinder. Been texting a week or so. Met him today in a public place, a pub! He seems really nice and is super hot! I can't decide if it's a good idea or not to invite him round to my house for second date.

Please advise me wise mumsnetters!

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ChristmasFluff · 05/09/2019 18:57

Why not meet at an STD clinic so you can each be sure you won't pass on anything to your partners (that you are so unhappy with)?

Dieu · 05/09/2019 23:06

Classy ....

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monkeytoad35 · 09/09/2019 09:21

Update....

So I've realised what an absolute crazy stupid idea this was to even contemplate doing. As a PP said, it's absolute sheer fucking madness, I agree!. I won't be seeing him again.

Thank you everyone for your comments. Especially to Elieza, your words of advice are exactly what I'm going to do. Leave my current partner and have some time on my own before dating again!

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