I don't love my partner of three years anymore , I've tried and the feelings have just left. I'm 20 and we have a young child together He is physically and emotionally abusive and also really controlling, how do I tell him I want out in the safest nicest way? I cant be bothered for this shit anymore as I know if I stay with him my life will be a misery and Il always be unhappy and treading on egg shells like I have for the past 2and a half years. Thanks x