I have a 10 month old son and I am the sole provider for him, I dont receive a single penny from my ex (my sons dad) and never have. I am on benefits and so is he and because of this he expects me to pay for everything. He doesn't come to collect him or drop him back off on days he has him I have to do all the driving I even have to provide all the food for my ex to feed my son including milk clothes everything he refuses to give me a penny. Infact he expects me to give him money to take my son out when hes staying there. Is this normal? Surely being a man you would want to provide? Please give me advice/opinions girls because its upsetting me and all i get is abuse from my sons dad. Thanks