I'm so hurt by what he said.

[Har23]

For the last few months my husband has been jokingly saying he's not getting enough sex. We might have sex 2-3 most weeks. I work long hours and I have 3 kids so naturally im not as wild as my pre kids days. Last night my husband and I were chatting in bed.the topic came up and he said "sure u just lie there like a sack of potatoes anyway" I'm really hurt by this. I said I didn't but he said yes u do.
Overnight I've lost respect for him, I'm very upset at his words. Or maybe I'm been too sensitive

I will second the PP! He’s lucky he’s getting what he is with 3 small children and you working long hours, I would be favoring sleep as a priority over and above his arrogant, selfish ass any day!

Sex is just that, sex, straight in no kissing. His comment has made me sit up and see exactly how selfish he actually is and how lax he is around the house. I'm begining to see the wood for the trees and 😏

Is he this much of a selfish git outside of bed too?

2/3 times a week for a couple with 3 kids is loads!

What he said to you was awful. I couldn’t forgive that.