I was going to namechange but thought you would all know who it was anyway.
As lots of you know H had affair - pretty typical now as it seems to be such a similar pattern others.
He has returned to work which involves them having daily contact. I was not sure i could handle it but we have been trying. No it has not been at all easy - it brings a lot of anger up and as it is still fairly recent we have not got past many anniversaries ect. Added to this i have a fantastic memory for dates and so some days i can remember what was going on last year. He cant and that makes it all the more frustrating.
Anyway they have both found it difficult to work together and i dont think anyone is surprized. But it looks as though she is going to be moved and although this is not promotion as such it could very well lead to it soon.
I am finding this very difficult and really wanted some good old fashioned revenge tactics to cheer me up.
I have not faced her - not because i am scared but i did feel it would be better for him (i sort of regret that now). I am trying to stay dignified but also want to have a secret chuckle about all the hateful things i could do. But probably wont!!
So any ideas very welcome.