Couples using escorts. Anyone done this?

[Maybeitsjustmeor]

Just that really. I'm hoping someone out there has ever desired or done this. Or if fantasies should be kept as just that.

Why don't you just find an escort you're interested and hire them for an hour. You don't actually have to do anything with them once they get there.

@SuperLoudPoppingAction that blog you linked to is extremely eye opening, absolutely horrendous the amount of men on there who sound so entitled to a female. The worst one I've got to so far is "She mouths off afterwards about cervical cancer etc. If she is worried about that she is in the wrong job."
Just wow. Thank you for linking, I think it's incredibly important for people to read things like that, how sex workers are treated by the people paying them.

@Maybeitsjustmeor you've mentioned an agency with reviews - go back and read the first link and have a look at how people review sex workers. I think your heart is in the right place, you want to do this and you want to do it responsibly which is great, but I do think a swingers club or similar would be the best for you. Although you've mentioned your DP apparently won't like men looking at you, (even though he's happy to pay to stick his dick in a woman who might be desperate for money and have no other option and be traumatised by the whole experience) which is worrying on its own and a whole other topic but I digress...

Tinder, Swingers clubs, or similar.

He doesn't want to actually have sex with anyone else and has a right not to have men involved as he's straight. Thanks for your replies. I've looked into the killing kittens website and going to mention that to him later tonight. I think he thinks all swinger places are like bdsm dungeons with nerds like you see on the TV. So I'm hoping by showing him the stuff I been looking at it'll change his mind but again it's me that's pushing for all this he's quite happy with just me. I'm more put off the escorting now I think there's got to be a better way and I know me and my partner would be mortified if the person we did this with appeared uncomfortable or it felt forced if that makes sense.
Your replies have really helped push me in a better dire3and thanks for not hurling abuse at me haha!

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Good luck and I hope it all works out for you

@18yearsoftrying - Off on a tangent from this original thread but can you advise how I see the other threads created by users (new to MN) and often see people discussing other threads and can't work out how to view them to make sense of the original thread!