I work in a pub, there's quite a few us there who are students, early 20s - mostly female but some male. There's a very regular group of blokes who come in who are v friendly with the landlord.
We are all friends, go out to clubs together, have lock ins. Very matey.
Tonight I was working and one the blokes were all in. Sat on a table together, usual thing. Then one of them came over to 'tell me something' put his arm around and me and said in my ear:
"you look shit from behind" as if he was doing me some kind of behaviour? I asked him to repeat it as he I couldn't make sense of what he'd said - he said it in the way you'd tell someone their flies were undone, if that makes sense. like a favour?
But i have no control of how I look 'from behind' whilst doing my job so whilst I'm certain he intended to insult me and could have got to grips with a message like "you have a fat arse" ( I don't, btw, I'm a size 10 with a slim arse, I'm apple shaped so fat belly would have been a proper insult) I don't know what he means.
I mean...I know he was putting me in my place, but since when was "you look shit from behind" a thing?!