Have decided that this year I want to get back on the dating scene but have no clue what to do. I separated from xh(18years together) nearly 2 years ago, I have 3 kids and live rurally in Scotland which makes it hard to meet someone as the location radius for me includes places that actually take 2 hours or more to get to despite "only" being "40miles" away. (iyswim) I've joined Bumble as ive heard its quite good.
However I have no clue how to write a great opening message once I match with someone! Any tips? Do I mention I've got kids? I don't want to scare them off or attract the wrong sort, but equally they are with me the majority of the time so am limited for meeting up with someone.