Hmm really fancy this bloke, and he likes me, BUT he is my (sort-of) mate's EX..

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He has been flirty with me for a while, but i know they have only JUST split up and are having to think of selling the house etc.
She is my sort-of friend, only known them both for about 3months, but our dds are in the same dance class and live nearby.

The bloke gave my dd a lift to a day out the whole dance class was having and asked for my number in case of emergency.
So then he was texting me all day and even called me.
i know they are split now but she doesnt know hes been texting me and i think she would go mad, although she says to me she would be happy to be rid of him..i feel weird being her mate and listening to her talking about the split and how he sleeps on the sofa...WHILST he is texting me..

i know i should steer clear, shouldnt i?? i have told him to go away for a while but deep down i do like him.
i dont want to be a shitty crap friend.

he sounds like he is just trying to prove a point to you about his desireability

probably but doesnt help me feel better.

dont know what to do..

i feel bloody miserable, thats for sure..and last nights' events (plus bloke ignoring me now) has made me feel 100 times worse.

well last nights bloke sounds like an opportunistic dickhead, so really dont let him get to you, treat it as a learning curve and dont do it again

as for exp, all i can suggest is to wait and give it time,he may well be open to talking about you both at some point.

thanks

you are v sweet for all your advice to me!!

i wouldnt call it advice, more moral support