I’m getting closer and close to thinking we need to split, things have not been good for a long time. But Christmas is coming and we have a holiday booked first half of next year.
It seems like there will often be a reason for it to not be good timing - kids birthdays, etc etc.
And its not just the timing, but it just feels too big a things to bring upon us all, the affect on the children, finances etc etc.
If your partner is abusive and things are “ok” (but not good enough) how do actually summon the energy to actually split?