ok this is embarrassing but I need to know [smile]

[cheltenhamgal]

I have been dating a wonderful guy and it has got to the intimate stage........ well to put it politely he is very wide and quite a big guy what would be the best position for a)me to control the thrust and b) for him to go deep but not for me to feel uncomfortable ?

I have another question as well but will start another thread

if you want to open your throat more, lie on the bed with your head hanging off and tilted back slightly, he will be kneeling or standing by the bed

it should give you less of a gag reflex and the ability to erm take him further in, for want of a better expression

I have heard that one way to open up your throat is to lie on your back, it is supposed to open up naturally - i think

More comfortable if he just lie on his back on the bed and you sit between his legs.

post yous question here too huni i would

I am really learning something here!

Ooops i thought you ment he was a fat guy! im so innocent!!

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You or him can do it in any position without tilting your head off, it you just learn to control the muscles at the back of your throat, in the area where your jawbone is, under the ears, sort of

lol to swalesie !

well my other question would be - have any of you ever performed a striptease for you partners ?

Re: the gagging, it helps to approach things from the "69" position as the curvature of said member is more aligned to the curvature of the throat. Enjoy

yes i agree re the head tilting but it's a fairly quick way of doing it

not keen on it myself, i prefer the more usual bj positions

strips, yes but not for a long time

Does Cheltenhamboy have any idea of what a great night, he's in for?

I have always wanted to perform a strip but have never had the courage before. I have said this to my chap and his eyes lit up so would like to surprise him. I think I will start another thread maybe asking what music lol

Well...ahem....one night DH was out and I was bored bored bored (this was pre mnet you understand)....so....I glammed up in some racy underwear and did a kind of mini hint at what I was wearing recording on the mobile and sent it to him.......

Did he come home early ready for action??

Did he feck! Didn't even reply and when he came home to find a somewhat deflated me on the sofa with all make up washed off he said I'm out...I can't be texting when I'm out..its rude!

Cue me stomping off to bed and no fadge access for him for a good few weeks!!!

willywonka unfortunately he doesnt live in cheltenham but in another place 1hr away and has five kids which he has full custody of - so it is quite hard for us to get any time together(excuse the pun lol)

LOL ooooops did he ever make it up for you

strip teases are fun but best done low lights and a couple of bacardi lol

Er...do you know, I can't actually remember!

Strip teases are fun!! I do mine with all the lights on! I have a hearing problem you see and I can't lipread in dim lights!!! If I'm going to get compliments, I want to be able to lipread them!!! ha ha!!

Mind you, this was all pre DS when I was 3st lighter and had a somewhat flatter stomach!

you can leave your hat on by tom jones is a good one

waves at nikki

ktmoomoo - not sure whether the bacardis would be better had by me or dh if I went down the striptease route...

I remember a bf from a while ago used to work shifts. He finished at 2130 and I had text him to say please come straight upstairs as I have a surprise for you. I was lay on the bed, new underwear, stockings the lot. He came in said hi, then said I need food, went downstairs and 2 hours later came back up. By which time I had fallen asleep

Pah!!! Selfish get!!!

You win though - you have a new one with a big fat shiny........wallet!!!

Roffle!!!