Ok touchy subject. Does it bother anyone else knowing dh has a tom tank

[holsnovell]

God that sounds awful. But being 26weeks pg i'm completely off sex, but the thought of dh having a you know what upsets me. To the point where i want to cry when i look at him

it's been 7 years now for us Flame!!

Ah bless him olive being accused of being gay. My dh has just clocked i'm talking about him whoops!

olive?

eh?

Yeah don't ask me i don't know who i'm talking too. I read something and then put something else

mtpw and flamesparrow - can I be in your gang? My dp has NO interest in sex or in tommy tanks and thinks I'm a perv. We had to have IUI to concieve, mostly because of this! Normally I'm totally up for it but being 25 wks PG like holsnovell I'm off it for the mo so he's totally relieved I think.

Actually holsnovell, when you say you're off sex, do you mean totally, or just a bit. I basically get vaginismus during pregnancy and
when I had to have an internal scan the consultant had to ask me to help him insert the probey thing. So cringeworthy!! I have no idea what it's about because I'm no prude. It must be really difficult for you if your dh is up for sex though.

I don't get any pain during after i'm sore. I do feel for my dh not only am i off sex i'm moody and just generally confused by most things! Must be difficult for you when not pg if your a randy person and dh not.

eek MTPW! Our longest was 12 onths

yeah, i think i regain virgin status when we reach a decade!

Really that long guys? Does it bother you?

It is very difficult but I still love dp so we manage. Actually, things did get a little better on the sex front just before I got pg this time (once a month kind of thing instead of once every six months!). I think it was cos I stopped putting any pressure on him. MTPW - there was a really interesting thread on this not so long ago.

Out of interest, how many times does a 'normal' guy have a tommy tank then? Can't remember exes. Too long ago.

You don't need a huge dildo to sort yourself out!

It doesn't bother me. Actually I'm glad he does except it wakes me up twice in the night. If I had sex everytime he wanted it I'd walk like John Wayne

Ours was down to me and pain - but there was never any pressure or upset over it

doesn't bother me a bit, holsnovell.

hey LiliAnjelika 'there was a really interesting thread on this not so long ago' is that a "shut up m2pw" then?!!

Hols, if he using pics of you to get his rocks off on his own, please don't worry.. so many men use yukky online interactive porn. That's actually quite flattering.

I am of the understanding that the vast majority of sexually active men wank... as well as those who want to be sexually active but only have the option to wank! Similarly women but not quite such a high percentage. According to what stats you look at!

Weeble are you serious? I don't know how much my dh does i'll ask

doesn't bother me - thought it was all part of being sexually in touch wiht your needs - see it as a seperate thing from sex.

Thought both parties did it - we that is what I read in a book once honest.

Twice a night?

Absolutely serious. We could do the deed, he would have a 'tom hank' a couple of hours later and then again around 5ish. If he only knew what I was divulging

Lol i don't mind you carry on. And yeah your right i'm being silly dh even tells me so.

Well he would!

No don't mind, why should I?

Same as he doesn't mind if it's me.

Wow. I'd slap dh if i caught him

My DH just doesn't.

mtpw - definitely not telling you to shut up! Just that the thread was so interesting I thought you might be interested...

Can't believe about the twice a night though. And there's me thinking snoring was an issue.