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I recently had a very emotionally intense encounter, and I feel so guilty

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TheDevilWearsPrimark · 13/06/2007 10:41

It was incredible, and stirred feelings in me that I haven't experienced for a long long time.
I have a very happy relationship and a beautiful family and would never ever betray them, but I feel guilty that this short encounter has affected me so much.

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TheDevilWearsPrimark · 13/06/2007 12:03

Oh, well not really on the street, but one of those stinking urinals that are on the pavement in central london these days, so pretty much.

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lou33 · 13/06/2007 12:03

we met at the end of an evening out, we were both in late night cafe

like you said instant sparks, he was beautiful with the most piercing blue eyes, from dublin

he walked me to my night bus in trafalgar square

you could tell both of us liked each other, but we didnt kiss, we both had partners

but it was a v intense hour or so

lol i am smiling again

expatinscotland · 13/06/2007 12:03

Until he killed the moment by whipping out his cock in the road and having a slash right there in front of you.

lou33 · 13/06/2007 12:04

no cock whipping out in my story

GrumpyOldHorsewoman · 13/06/2007 12:05

Carmenere, I had exactly that, too. A mutual friend, eight years younger than me. Successful, intelligent, attractive. He actually told me that if I wasn't already married, he would snap me up. We had some long nights on the phone (DH was working abroad) which left me feeling, shall we say, flustered , but I didn't take it any further (he would have done, if I had let him). Makes you feel a million dollars, just knowing that you're not the dowdy person you imagine you are.

Devil, enjoy it, remember it, even fantasise about it. But it is yours to keep, don't worry because you have done nothing wrong at all. I would say don't tell DP, he probably wouldn't want to hear how you connected with another man on such a deep level, regardless of the fact you remain faithful.

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TheDevilWearsPrimark · 13/06/2007 12:05

o no no no no. No cocks were whipped out, no slashig right in front of me, but he 'nipped' to one of thise hideous circular urinal things and obviously pissed, and i just hate those things.

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expatinscotland · 13/06/2007 12:06

See, this is why I'm glad for all my hook ups, flings, affairs and one-nighters I had in my single days.

TheDaVinciCod · 13/06/2007 12:06

oh god its cos the nobvelty of being wooed is lost on oy
nothign to feel guilty abvout

expatinscotland · 13/06/2007 12:07

I hope he didn't touch anything in one of those urinal thingies.

Didn't George Michael get arrested in one of those for paying some bloke to give him a BJ in there?

ThomCat · 13/06/2007 12:08

I had an intense couple of hours with a guy I met on a boat party. He had amazing eyes too, we got on like a house on fire and just kept looking at each other and really laughing. We spent hours dancing and hugging and laughing. It was wonderful. His girlfriend turned up at the end of the night and I went home to my DP. I can see his eyes and his lovley blue t-shirt now. And he didn't wee in public or anything!

I also sat on a coach back from an all-dayer next to a bloke, DP went and sat at back of coach. We talked and talked and shared personal stuff and really sparked off each other, he was lovely. He took my number and we had loads of text messages about how it was amazing to meet and get on so well. Dp knew all about it. Then it all fizzled out and we stopped texting.

Harmless, normal, life.

BeatrootandBenedick · 13/06/2007 12:14

oh I wasn't being cynical I was putting the moment in a sort of reality for you.

I am glad you enjoyed it and think you should keep thememory for you t smile at in your tired out days

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TheDevilWearsPrimark · 13/06/2007 12:16

expatinscotland, I mean those telescopic urinals, which probably deserve a whole thread of thir own for discussion.
news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/2382831.stm

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Carmenere · 13/06/2007 12:16

This thread is the reason I love mn. Romantics and cynics vying pmsl

TigerFeetFormerlyCheesyFeet · 13/06/2007 12:45

PMSL @ "Tackle Menace" as a header in that link

stoppinattwo · 13/06/2007 12:47

Hey it wasnt cods Ds's guitar teacher was it!!!!..............believe he is good at whipping out the old guitar

TheDaVinciCod · 13/06/2007 12:47

swoon
he texted me to ask how i was

stoppinattwo · 13/06/2007 12:49

oh how thoughtful .............he fancies you he does

TheDaVinciCod · 13/06/2007 12:49

hmm

he is broke
ruled out.

BeatrootandBenedick · 13/06/2007 12:50

did you get his ophone munber?

TheDaVinciCod · 13/06/2007 12:50

no she saw hsi donger though

BeatrootandBenedick · 13/06/2007 12:51

my brother met his wife on a nudist beach - good ploy i think

expatinscotland · 13/06/2007 12:52

Does he have a big unit?

stoppinattwo · 13/06/2007 12:53

you are such a material girl cod..........lol at donger he wasnt a judge as well was he????

Devil.....that is such a lovely story

harrisey · 13/06/2007 12:57

Maybe its the same bloke for you all - hanging about trafalgar square for 20 years with his guitar, singing to women who go past.

TheDaVinciCod · 13/06/2007 12:58

whats happened to the judge?
i saw he was showing his briedfs in court

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