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How do i make him stop - trigger warning - rape **Thread title edited by MNHQ**

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femline · 05/10/2018 08:11

I can't handle this anymore and I need help with my OH. This morning he woke up and was touching me sexually. I rolled away but he didn't stop. He asked for sex and I said no. Then for about 5 minutes he sat there begging me "please babe", "you know you want to", etc. In the end I rolled on to my stomach and he just started anyway. So he's.. doing the deed, and I'm kinda just led there with my head in the pillow wishing I was anywhere else. He then out of nowhere started choking me and I could barely breathe. He was squeezing my neck so hard it hurt. I started crying (silently) at this point. He "finished", got up, said "love you" and left for work...

I wish I could say this was the first, or second, or fifth time. How do I stop him? Or AIBU as his wife and do I just go with it?

AnyaMumsnet · 05/10/2018 09:48

Hi @femline,

We can see you're getting some good advice and support here on your thread but we just thought we'd add a link to our domestic violence webguide. There are lots of organisations listed on it that can offer you real life support too.

A good starting point would be Women's Aid - they have a free helpline (run in partnership with Refuge) that's open 24 hours a day - 0808 2000 247. Please think about getting in touch - we know they've helped many, many Mumsnetters.

We're also going to move this thread to relationships, as we think you'd get more support there. Flowers

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