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adviceadviceadvice · 04/10/2018 14:54

I'm shaking and bruised and more than a bit shocked. My husband just yelled at me to get out of the car. I refused so he stopped the car and dragged me out. My ankle is grazed, my elbow is grazed. He just did that and left me there in broad daylight. I walked home (only 10 mins). A kind couple saw what happened and checked I was ok.

I have been a total winge bag today I do know that. I'm knackered and under the weather and probably took that out on him. But still. He's never done anything as physical as that before. He does lose his temper occasionally and is a real shouter - properly sees red. Doors slammed, stuff chucked about sometimes. We were having a disagreement. I'm sure he felt I wasn't understanding his point of view. I don't feel like e was hearing what I was saying at all and he kept talking then shouting over me.

I'm home, he's calm -just said please can I talk to you. I'm still crying. I said no and yelled for him to go away.

What on earth do I do.

But how on earth can someone who is supposed to love me do that?

But I don't know what to do. How can I do nothing. My daughter was in the car. She's 18 months. I have a 4 year old son. I have to set an example.

JoanneMumsnet · 04/10/2018 17:29

Hi adviceadviceadvice,

We can see you're getting some good advice and support here on your thread but we just thought we'd add a link to our domestic violence webguide. There are lots of organisations listed on it that can offer you real life support too.

A good starting point would be Women's Aid - they have a free helpline (run in partnership with Refuge) that's open 24 hours a day - 0808 2000 247. Please think about getting in touch - we know they've helped many, many Mumsnetters.

Sending good wishes - we really hope you're okay. Flowers

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