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craziest thing your ex did (lighthearted)

50 replies

narkedwithanarc · 15/05/2018 18:55

my ex has told people that he once walked in on me...with my cats!!! Shock

what's the craziest thing your ex has said or done since you split? Grin

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narkedwithanarc · 15/05/2018 20:15

just me with the crazy ex?! surely not Wink

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beIindaBlinked · 15/05/2018 20:22

What do you mean "with your cats"

Like..... sexy fun times?

GrinConfusedGrin

MyKingdomForBrie · 15/05/2018 20:23

He said.. what?

One of mine proposed by letter about two years after we had broken up.. that was weird!

narkedwithanarc · 15/05/2018 20:27

yes, like sexy fun times!!! Confused he's not the most sane of them all is he!

MyKingdom, now that is weird Grin

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ChipInTheSugar · 15/05/2018 20:37

Mine downloaded a pic of a woman with her blouse unbuttoned (and no bra) and claimed it was me (because the blouse was similar to one I had worn years earlier).

halfwitpicker · 15/05/2018 20:38

What? I don't get it

MayFayner · 15/05/2018 20:39

One of mine rang my boss to complain about how mean I was.

Whywonttheyletmeusemyusername · 15/05/2018 20:41

My ex told everyone I'd died....Hmm

narkedwithanarc · 15/05/2018 20:52

@halfwitpicker my ex spread rumours that he walked on me engaging in some kind of sexual activity with my cats lol

@whywonttheletmeusemyusername so we're talking to a ghost Shock Grin

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Aprilmightbemynewname · 15/05/2018 20:56

My exh told my dc I was a prostitute....

Wilhamenawonka · 15/05/2018 20:58

My exes dad called my dad to complain that I'd unfriended him on fb Grin

halfwitpicker · 15/05/2018 20:58

Oh my lord

Mine used to reflag the kitchen as a hobby. He did it nearly every month

Hmm

No wonder I always had chest infections

halfwitpicker · 15/05/2018 20:59

My exes dad called my dad and said I needed to get back with ex

Luckily my dad said no

Grin
Jilliyan · 15/05/2018 21:04

My ex messaged my OH a list of ways that he satisfies me more than my OH ever could - the irony

BoiledFrog · 15/05/2018 21:07

Sent me a picture of himself in some underwear he had bought and a terrible wig. I don't think I have ever laughed quite so hard in all my life, still have it saved somewhere Grin

BoiledFrog · 15/05/2018 21:08

Very apt name there halfwitpicker

Idrinkandiknowstuff · 15/05/2018 21:09

How long you got?

Ex 1: told everyone I was in jail for attacking him with a knife, then told everyone I’d been released and was now living with a notorious criminal.

Ex 2: Rang my mother and said they needed to talk about my unacceptable behaviour and agree how to deal with it, as they had to make sure they presented a united front. (My crime was going running rather than cooking his dinner)

Accused me of shagging no less than four blokes at work on the basis that he turned up unannounced and I was “locked in a room with them”. Yeah, it’s called a meeting dickhead, and it was a glass walled room!

Was gleeful at “catching me lying” when I said the bus was due at five past the hour, he checked and it was in fact due at four minutes past.

Ex 3: Went to a solicitor to sue me for adultery, when 1. We were never married, 2. We’d been split up for nearly a year, and 3: I’d only been on one date with the so called affair partner, barely knew him.

Was caught on CCTV slashing my tyres and insisted he was actually checking the tyre pressure for me, at 2am in the pouring rain.

Announced no less than four times (and counting) that he’d been given three months to live. Apparently, he went to the gp, who gave him a quick check up, and delivered the bad news on the spot.

I could go on all night, I sure can pick em.

mindutopia · 15/05/2018 21:50

I had an ex bf (only together about 3 months so not necessarily a serious, exclusive relationship but still a serious enough relationship!) who invited me to go to a wine tasting evening with his brother and his partner. When I met them there after work, there was another girl there as well who kept hugging on and flirting with my bf. I talked to her for a bit trying to figure out who the hell she was and it transpired that she was dating my bf!! Like he had met this girl and also invited her wine tasting thinking I wouldn’t mind! I was so furious I couldn’t even speak and we all ended up going out to dinner after (the 5 of us!!) because it was like such a train wreck that though I was blindly furious, I refused to leave and let him have his ‘date’ so off we all went to dinner. On my way home after, he texted to explain and ask if he could still come over and spend the night after he dropped this girl off. NO!!!! I’ve had a lot of stupid stuff happen to me in relationships (thankfully I have a lovely dh and happy marriage now), but it’s still the most flabbergasted I’ve ever been by someone I was seeing.

narkedwithanarc · 16/05/2018 09:11

@mindutopia what a fucking chancer Shock well rid!

@idrinkandiknowstuff fingers crossed the next one is only crazy in bed Grin

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narkedwithanarc · 16/05/2018 09:29

Another one from the same ex!

After I blocked him, ex text some friends and his cousin to say he'd taken all of his pills and was exactly 15 minutes from death Hmm

Friend called me so I tipped off the police. They turned up at his door, he gave them a false name, said they had the wrong flat and ran away whilst they went to the 'right' flat. Then called his friend and said he was at the hospital dying and he better come see him before he passed away. Hmm Hmm Hmm

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FlatTopVera · 16/05/2018 09:42

A few weeks after splitting up my EXH presented me with a £500 phone bill that he thought I should pay. £500!!!!!!! Our bill was normally about £40.

On close inspection I realised:
A) I hadn’t made even one of those calls
B) they’d all been made in the month since I moved out

I told him this and he said calmly ‘yes I know: but it’s YOUR fault I had to ring everyone in your address book to tell them you are a slag, so it’s really your bill.’

😂

pumpkinpie01 · 16/05/2018 09:50

My ex got my son to call into my workplace to get my house keys so he could get his football stuff ( sons football stuff) as he was taking him to football practice. He then ignored all phone calls regarding my keys leaving me locked out of my own house !

Aprilmightbemynewname · 16/05/2018 10:47

Same exh had me questioned for assault. He had a tiny scratch under his eye and claimed I did it - while he had his foot in my door despite me trying to close it.
Told the police if I was going to hit him I would have used a frying pan!! Case dropped due to lack of evidence. He was trying to discredit me to use in custody case.
Oh which he lost after HIS lies were exposed in court!!
Karma at its best imo.

Sweatymoose · 16/05/2018 11:04

My high school boyfriend harassed me for years after we broke up. Nothing serious but he'd be adding my family on fb, post stuff about me weekly, would message my partners (one ex in particular he STILL messages crap to), had fights with a couple of them... his gf who he has lived with for years must love it Hmm. But yeh, when I got pregnant 8 years after we split, years since I'd actually seen him in person, he told people it was his baby....

somekindofgrief · 16/05/2018 13:34

@sweatymoose after 8 years?!? that's some powerful sperm huh 😂