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Original poster

He just called me cunt

48 replies

Lightyathome · 15/03/2018 19:11

Me trying to talk to him about not being happy because he goes out almost every night. He goes ok you stupid cunt let's have a row if you want

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Itscurtainsforyou · 15/03/2018 19:14

I wouldn't stay with someone who treated me like that.

JoyceDivision · 15/03/2018 19:16

Bye bye. Why waste your life being treat like that?

GaraMedouar · 15/03/2018 19:17

I would not be in a relationship with someone who spoke to me like that.

Original poster
Lightyathome · 15/03/2018 19:18

Yeah that's what I think as well. Just wanted to shout it out!!!!!
Think of texting his mum saying he is a waste of a human being!

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IAmWonkoTheSane · 15/03/2018 19:18

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Itscurtainsforyou · 15/03/2018 19:19

Whose name is the house in? Do you have children?
Kick him out or leave. Never mind his mum.

Bananalanacake · 15/03/2018 19:20

Is that because he's leaving you alone to look after dc. He shouldn't call you that at all.

MyBrilliantDisguise · 15/03/2018 19:22

Don't bother sending his mum a message. The sort of man who calls his partner names like that usually has a useless mother who'll defend him at all costs.

NEVER put up with this sort of thing.

Original poster
Lightyathome · 15/03/2018 19:22

No children, no house.

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mimibunz · 15/03/2018 19:22

Kick him to the kerb.

ThomasShelbysBunnet · 15/03/2018 19:23

OMG don't even hesitate then. Finish it.

LineysOfArabia · 15/03/2018 19:23

I'd break up. Honestly.

LineysOfArabia · 15/03/2018 19:24

Why do you want to tell on him to his mum, btw? Are you living there?

milleniumhandandprawn · 15/03/2018 19:24

No children, no house... just an arsehole - why stay????

FruHagen · 15/03/2018 19:25

NO CHILDREN! NO HOUSE! The 4 best words in a thread like this.

Get rid. Life is too short. Find someone who doesn't treat you like dirt.

Original poster
Lightyathome · 15/03/2018 19:33

We're renting so I'll just move out

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Rossiebrown · 15/03/2018 19:33

Get rid. It will escalate.

Kimlek · 15/03/2018 19:42

Don’t involve his mum just go.

PrettyLittIeThing · 15/03/2018 20:00

His mum? I'm taking it he is an adult so no I wouldn't tell his mum.

MyBrilliantDisguise · 15/03/2018 20:01

NO CHILDREN! NO HOUSE! The 4 best words in a thread like this.

My view entirely!

LineysOfArabia · 15/03/2018 20:02

And I'm sorry, OP. It's horrible to realise that someone you were prepared to love is actually pretty awful Flowers

ListeningtoBowie · 15/03/2018 20:03

Definitely leave. You deserve better

43percentburnt · 15/03/2018 20:04

No children! No house! No problem! Leave without a word and never respond to a call or text from him again.

buttonmoonb4tea · 15/03/2018 20:07

No children! No house! No problem! Leave without a word and never respond to a call or text from him again

This

Honestly don’t waste any more time

MistressDeeCee · 15/03/2018 20:08

Out every night, verbal abuse when you try to discuss, no kids, no joint property..errm please kick his disrespectful arse out - he can go to whoever he's with every night. Why even waste life on this deadbeat? Men aren't an endangered species,plenty around who won't treat you like this. You've patience for even still being with him. Neveraround,no use, fuck off. That's my motto. Life truly is too short I couldn't be asked.

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