Karate kitten
I agree with you to some extent. I have worked security at a number of strip shows for both male and female audiences. I don't attend them in my spare time, I have the faintest interest but conversely, I don't judge those that do.
But peer or tribal groups of both men AND women show some pretty sordid behaviour in these circumstances, especially when copius amounts of alcohol are consumed.
Working security ( I am an engineer by day, with a good degree ), by default, you have to be both a people watcher and a behavioural student.
I can tell you this from many, many experiences.
The male punters are not allowed anywhere near the girls apart from maybe a plant ( The strippers boyfriend or partner in the audience ), to drive the show.
However, I have seen countless middle aged women have sex with the oiled up Adonis', ranging from fellatio to bareback vaginal and anal sex in front of their friends. At the end of the night they go home to their husbands and children.
So yes, some woman do view attractive, fit young men as pieces of meat.
It depends on the environment, the social context, and as mentioned, peer groupings and alcohol play a massive part in lowering inhibitions and personal standards of decency.
When many groups of professional women transition from the work environment to the ' party environment ', they can be as bad AND worse than men.