I was raised a Catholic but have not practised for many years. I believe my upbringing had a profound effect on my sexuality as I am unable to initiate sex with my DH even though I'm not hung up about my body, am reasonably attractive, have never had an abusive sexual experience and quite enjoy sex once we get into it. But our sex life is dwindling because he thinks I'm not interested and don't find him attractive. He's fed up of initiating all the time. I also find it hard to be open, flirtatious, fun etc I'm 42 and still believe that nice girls don't! Can anyone help with this??