A little advise needed please.
Dp was invited to a colleagues stag do and wedding. So stag do was last weekend Saturday DP left at around 5pm saying he wouldn't be too late (not a close or old friend just a work colleague). No text or anything to say that his plans had changed and he wouldn't be home, phone was off and he finally turned back at house at 5.30pm Sunday saying he had poisoned himself and had stayed over at someone's house but he hadnt called all day sunday which i thought was unthoughtful as i was worried. When I asked why he hadn't let me know he said he couldn't get signal? We live in a major city in south east so signal is not an issue.
So yesterday was the wedding, he went out about midday and when I woke up at around 6am he wasn't back. When I asked him what time he got in he said about 2am, so I said that I was still awake then and he wasn't and that I had got up for drink at 6 and still no sign he said I was lying!
So far he has spent £700 on the two weekends which in itself seems unreasonable to me as we are really struggling at the moment and with the staying out as well it seems to be taking the piss to me what do you think AIBU?