Can I get a sanity check please before I send a message I regret?
My DH has told me to send a message about this to my MIL. Thoughts please.
MIL has had our two children for a few days. She dropped my youngest today at daycare and then brings all the bags back to our house.
She has a key. Usually she rings the doorbell.
This morning I am in bed and all of a sudden my MIL is in my house. I am not dressed. And I didn't know she was coming over.
AIBU to expect a phone call beforehand or even for her to have rang the doorbell before she came in.
I'm pretty pissed off at the minute and tearful. I have depression and a cold. I don't want someone coming in to my house unannounced.
Husband told me to send this:
"Hi MIL
Thank you for bringing the things back today.
I'm sorry I wasn't dressed: still not feeling well. I don't want to pass on my fever/bug.
Would you mind ringing ahead or the door bell when you come in? As I say, I wasn't dressed and didn't expect anyone here. I hope you understand.
You're always welcome but please let me know before you come in."
Thoughts please. 😔