Posted on aibu but it didn't get mang replies.
I'm thinking about trying online dating. My husband died four years ago and I have two young children. I've no idea how to write a profile, choose photos or weed out the few decent men from the ones after a one night stand.
I had a couple of bad relationships in the early days which put me off but I feel ready to try again. Do I mention my late husband /kids etc right away or later on if messaging someone? Would my ex be able to look me up on tinder if he lives a long way away?