Ok, I'm new here so please be gentle, but I'm in desperate need of some advice. Basically, I was six months pregnant with my son when I found some messages on my husbands phone to a girl he worked with. Some were friendly, others were more explicit, detailing stuff he wanted to do to her, and how he had been looking at hotels for them both to go to.
Anyway, we worked through it, had our baby boy, he left his job, we went to marriage counselling and have been getting on ok since (this was 2 years ago).
Last Friday night, he went out with some old workmates, I was fine with this, but some photos have gone up on Facebook this morning that he's tagged in, and she's on there, smiling away.
It's knocked me sick, for one thing, I had no clue she was going to be there, but then why would he tell me as he knew I'd freak out. But now the photos are there for all to see!
What do I do? Do I bring it up? I don't want to drag stuff up from our past as we have done so well in moving on from it, but I'm shaking and it's really upset me. I've scrolled through the pics, and to be fair, there's only one on there where they are together, and it was a group photo of about twenty people. The others, she's on them with other people.
What the hell do I do??