I'm not proud of myself but I went through his phone (he's asleep).
Before we moved in together, he got cold feet and had messaged another girl who he had been talking to before we got serious but never met. He admitted all to me and we moved on. This was about eight months ago.
At the weekend, I could see he was messaging someone on facebook and asked who she was. He said he didn't know her and that she had just added him and started messaging but I could tell from the way their conversation read that he wasn't being honest.
Turns out he found her on POF, messaged her first and they had a brief conversation -he told her she was very pretty - before he requested her facebook details. He added her and initiated the conversation on messenger too.
There were two other conversations on POF that he initiated recently. In one of them the girl he messaged is talking about her son who is the same age as mine, yet he makes no mention of living with my son (not his) who is the same age.
Conversations are innocent enough, general chatting and apart fom the comment about one girl being pretty, not filrty at all. But why is he on a dating site, which still says he is single on his profile, initiating conversations?
The first two girls don't even live remotely near us so I doubt he's intending on meeting up and actually acting on anything. The third girl (with the son) stays a bit closer.
Wtf do I do now?