My kids' father, who I kicked out 2 weeks ago, is a liar.

[colditz]

It the minute, he claims to miss me, to want to be with me, but I have found our that last week he texted a mate asking him "If you see colditz and she asks where I was, tell her I was at yours"

he claims he "Doesn't remember" and also that he went to a different friend's house and "You would have had a paddy"

i don't give a shit where he goes at the minute.

WHY FFS WHY is he still telling me lies? I have got to the point of throwing him out, and STILL he is trying to deceive me!

I don't know what to do, I'm so fucking miserable that he is making no effort

Neither would i have.
Maybe because they wanted to offer you the cash Easy Entry scheme and needed to see if you were on benefits?
Weird

THey cant chase you for bills in his name.

Its not worth their while, financially, anyway to try adn pursue you.

Just forward on his details to them though

He needs to understand responsibility....

Could be, but they were quite capable of saying that. And they didn't they just said "Oh, it's on the form"

As if that validates intrusive questions!

he wouldn't understand responsibilty if it's dick was up his bum.

hmmmmmmmmm he sounds like my DH ??? and yes he is a twat

He doesnt have to understand it as such, just feel the pain of it....

Do it - pass on his details - they may want to pursue it further. Why should you have to deal with all this shit?