Is my DH being rude or am I over sensitive WRT this message?

[NamidyName]

Honestly, I very well may be being over sensitive, but I want to make sure.

I had a baby boy a few months ago and said via text I'd like to start running as I don't feel great about my appearance and he replies with the message attached. It's the "shall I cancel the Chinese" bit that seems rude!?

Again, I may be being over sensitive, please don't be too harsh!

You are being over sensitive. He sounds like he is trying to be supportive :)

You're being over sensitive.

He sounds lovely

Blimey, I can't think of a way he could have been more lovely

His first sentence tells you you're gorgeous. Focus on that. He is being supportive. What did you want him to say?

Definitely over sensitive, he sounds lovely and was just trying to make a joke. I don't even get why you think he's being rude

Sounds okay to me?.

Wow! Ok! Definitely me then I don't know, I suppose I'm feeling very paranoid about things glad he wasn't though.

You are being over sensitive.

Hth

I hope you didn't have a go at him!

To be fair, it was a very reasonable question to ask about the Chinese. Because if you are trying to trim up, the Chinese isn't going to help, is it?

If you had a baby a few months ago, just take it easy on yourself though .

I think you wanted him to say really that there is completely nothing wrong with how you look and tell you not to bother in all honesty, doesn't mean he doesn't think that already but I think it's nice to just hear that sort of reply :)

Agree Badman

Ah, God love him! Why do you think that's rude?

I wish my husband would be similarly understanding about not eating crap when I'm trying to lose weight!

You are totally overreacting. He's supporting you, now get out there and get back in shape! Starting exercising and eating properly. You'll feel so much better!

Rude? Really?! Erm, he sounds lovely!

He sounds like a nice guy.

Wow. I'd hate to see how you reacted if he actually was rude. Nothing rude about that text.

I have a finely tuned radar for offensive nuance and that doesn't sound like anything of the sort. He may have been gently teasing about the Chinese but there's nothing wrong with that.

Why did you feel annoyed? What is it you thought he was saying?

He spelled 'you're' correctly. He's a keeper.

The double question mark shows he's joking about the Chinese, but only half-joking because he's trying to be supportive.

He sounds bloody lovely, truly.

Go easy on him and on yourself.

Ha, thoughtfox, I thought that, too