Cheating ??

[Lindseylou75]

My partner went back to another womans house and stayed there all night drinking. He says he fell asleep on couch. Hes kknown this woman for years and shes supposed to be seeing his friend... he came home nxt day and told me straight away were he had been and swears nothing happened.. i just dont know what to believe ??

you'd rather he sat on 'where he's spent the night' a few hours days or weeks more ?

I'd rather he didn't do it in the first place.

I find all these "oh but do you trust him" a bit silly.

I mean, you usually do until something happens and then you don't. There's always a first time.

TBH if the children aren't his and he doesn't sound very nice, I don't see what you are getting out of the relationship.

Don't you think you (and your DC) deserve someone ... well ... nicer?

(was thinking more of his boxers op)

Yes your probably right, just sometimes easier said than done i suppose when u feel so crap about yourself coz of it all its not so easy to have confidence to do it

The only reason I would spend time at another man's house, when my DH was sitting in our own house 5 mins away, would be if I was more interested in that OM than my DH.

Don't let a man rubbish your self worth; it's his failing, not yours, believe in yourself, you don't need a man to validate your existence or worthiness, ever.

I am sorry you think this crappy bloke is the best you deserve

He's clearly talking bollocks. You must see that?