Would it bother you if your DH wanted to use a sex toy on himself?

[DaveBir]

I know there is a sex topic but I haven't been here long enough unfortunately I have been here a couple of months, but have name changed for this.

Just what the title says really. He has asked if we "give it a try" I was a bit surprised and don't really know what to say! Would it bother you?

Does putting petrol in the car mean I'm bisexual?

Does putting petrol in the car mean I'm bisexual?

SCANDAL!

If my DH wanted to stick anything, even a penis in that hole then it would be straight up divorce. Imo, nothing should go up there. It's just wrong.

So he isn't allowed to have his prostate examined for cancerous growth, either? Poor guy.

Surely, you must be kidding?

A man wanting to use a sex toy in his ass doesn't mean he's gay any more than a lesbian using a dildo means she's straight. Some people like penetration, some don't. Nothing to do with sexual orientation.

My current bf likes a well lubed finger, or a tongue, up his bum. Mine, not his (angles!).

I've discovered I like all of the above, or indeed full on anal if I'm really horny and super relaxed after a good orgasm!

No idea about toys, but if you're both happy to try it, I'd highly recommend doing so -sounds like you have a great relationship and can experiment gently with what feels good.

Eew no, couldn't put my tongue up someone's arse. Far more adventurous than me.

I'm fairly adventurous but rimming or similar is too much for me. No issues with people who like it though.

You cut the top off a condom and then cut it in half to create a 'dental dam' it is used between you and your partner so you lick it not them.
This information is entirely theoretical. I teach it but personally I have sex in the dark with my nightie on.