Found a vibrator...

[BigBrownSofa123]

It's a bit of a WWYD one.
Dh works away a lot but is back home at the moment. I went to get something out of his suitcase last night and found a brand new vibrator.
He has come home a couple of times previously with toys so this discovery wasn't a big shock. The thing that has got me wondering though is that it is a very different style to what I've said I like to use, also that we had sex last night (after my discovery) and used my vibe but he didn't mention the new one at all.

So what do I do? I feel I have 2 options. Either keep quiet and wait to see if I notice anything else dodgy, see if it disappears etc.
Or come out and ask him about it. I'm not entirely convinced I would get the truth out of him if he did have something to hide though.

Not even really sure why I'm posting...

StartledByHisFurryShorts

I love the Georgia Nicholson books

I didn't get chance to take a photo unfortunately. I wish I had.

He's not following any of the script that I've noticed so I suppose that's good.

You have to be a special kind of stupid to point blank deny something as obvious as that being seen so I wouldn't worry too much over the lack of picture.

I'm sorry you're having to worry about this and hope it turns out to be something of nothing

This would worry the hell out of me except for the fact it's brand new.

Be on alert though.

Thinking about it, was the box sealed? He could have used it himself and then used the box to store it in.

Would he openly admit to using it for himself if you asked?

NameChangeShamed Yes box sealed says OP.

[Nosy alert] what kind of vibrator is it? Why is it different to your usual sort? I am assuming it's not a male only one such as cock ring?

Very strange OP. I also think you should keep quiet for a while and see if it's mentioned next weekend? If it disappears between now and then I would get more suspicious.

Yes the box was still sealed which thinking about it is a good thing, as if it comes back I'll be able to tell if it's been used.
It was a lifelike one. I've been vocal that I don't like them and that I need the clitoris part too, this one doesn't have that.

I think he would admit but be a bit embarrassed. We've done stuff in that area before. Sorry I'm trying to be vague, don't want to make anyone sick while they eat their tea!

I am definitely keeping quiet about it.

When is he due home again for you to see?

Has he give you no other reason to be concerned?

what happened OP? hope all is okay

I'd be looking at his phone next available opportunity. Can you see his phone bill?

Can I just point out that " telling elaborate lies all the time " and " being a bit scatty " don't go together.

The " scattieness " is evasion to cover up the lies.

And no one is a liar and a cheat for 6 years then suddenly stops overnight. It's a whole worldview and personality that needs changed and it only happens with couselling / therapy, hard work and accountability.

Has he done that ?