100% honest.....how many times do you have sex with long term partner/husband in a month

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Doing my own poll!! Answers underneath 😉

Good question fruit, I didn't think it could be ready that way! But no, full (ish) shag every 2 months.

I think 0.5 times too frequently is something called 'edging' which I read about recently.

Yes, I know sorry.

It was just a mild joke.

I'm going to start a parking thread in AIBU, I might piss off fewer people.

Together 8 years, have a four month old. 3 - 5 times a month on average.

Happybunny19 no wonder that's your user name 22 years and everyday.... good for you

It's usually at least every other day for us. DH is working from home quite a bit at the moment so sometimes it's every day

We had quite a dry patch h before Christmas just with lots going on but we're back to it now, thankfully!

So I'd say somewhere around 15 times month for us but sometimes closer to 20.

Once a month?

Ten years together and TBH, I really can't be arsed anymore. No sex drive really.

When I go to bed, I want to sleep.

together 28 years married 24 of those.
We have sex most days as no kids at home most of the time, dh works at home a lot and I'm only pt.
When dc were at home it was a bit less, but have never let work or other commitments get in the way of our sex life as it has always been the most important part of our relationship.

Wasn't there a thread about this just a week or so ago, with exactly the same variety of answers? What more is there to add? If you'd searched this subject on MN you'd have found the answers you're looking for. Don't see what else this thread adds really.

Not for eight months now. It's a part of why we're separating – he's not interested any more and it's soul destroying.

Before that, once every couple of months or so, for the last few years. When we were younger probably a couple of times a week. I can't really remember any more!

Married 40 years this weekend. At least once a week.

Sorry to hear that lego. hope you soon find someone who doesn't lack in anything.

24 years. At least a few times a week throughout the entirety of our relationship (except for a few weeks post birth and during illnesses).

We have spells as well.

I'm pregnant only 7 months but huge and I know DP isn't very attracted to me, nor do I feel like it.

I'm dreading the after birth phase I always need stitches, and my recovery takes agesss so potentially we are looking at 4 months of minimal sex (once a week max)

Outside of those circumstances it's normally sex every day and if not some other form. When we have sex we do it all not just a quick shag :)

Love it!

Also I'm planning on not breastfeeding this time around as I found my libido was non existent when I was

Well we both have high sex drives but life us hard, very hard and by the time we go to bed we can't lift a finger never mind anything else. So we are on once or twice a month.

The children stayed with my parents last year foe a couple if weeks for the first time in 12 weeks and we did it every day.

So I think for us is a temporary drought really until our lives feel less manic - 4 children, two manic jobs and no family support do take a toll...

Ps I do also have very heavy periods that last 7-10 days and there is no way on earth I would dtd then!!!!

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Been together 2 years, living together for 1.
I'm currently 7 months pregnant.

Pre pregnancy we would usually have sex around 5 times a week on average so approx 20 times a month.

Currently whilst pregnant we seem to be non stop and it's every day and sometimes two times a day.
So around 30-35 times a month