swingers parties

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Hi, I know this might sound a bit odd and please dont judge me because this is something i've thought about a lot and i'm keen to do....i'd like some tips on going to a sex club with my friend with benefits.
i'm a married woman with an almost catatonic sex life within my marriage and my bit on the side wants me to go to a swingers club with him. I'm keen on the idea but would love some tips and advice. what does one wear? should one drink? should one indulge with others or stay on the sidelines? Obviously safe sex is a must. I know people will judge these places as sleazy but I'd like to hear from people in the know, not just the judgemental.
I've looked on websites run by several clubs but would love to hear any hints and tips from normal women who have been to ones in the south of England and any recommendations please. I hope i dont sound like a sex-crazed woman. i'm not. i work in my local library near London and i'm just looking for a bit of spice in my life! Marion.

Awh Marion. Can't you just read fifty shades? Given you work in the library you could just sneak it home some night.

You may be better posting in the 'sex' topic

Cheating and swinging, all in one post.

No advice Marion, I just hope your poor husband knows he's in an open marriage.

MN isn't really the place to be looking for advice on how to cheat on your husband even more than you already are, in all honesty "Marion"

Marion the married librarian looking to join a swinger's club with her 'bit on the side'

There's a novel right there ....

If your husband is oblivious to all of this you don't deserve any advice, love.

Love how you posted in "style and beauty" as well as relationships.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/style_and_beauty/1992360-What-does-one-wear-to-a-swingers-club Oh look. I googled.

That's an old thread by the way.

I don't think anyone would really care what you wear. I think the idea is they want to have sex with you.

If its a fetish type of place just wear your librarians outfit and thick horn rimmed spectacles.
You can add to the excitement by telling them you are cuckolding your husband.

Vanilla Alternative near Bedford. Friendly, mixed crowd of all ages. Go on a Saturday as it's couples only. They will show you round on arrival if you say it's your first time. Top tip-expect your first visit to just be a bit of a recce to check the place out. Everyone expects newbies to be nervous and there are always other newbies there. Have fun!

Drop us a message if you want. An open board isn't the best place to discuss this!

Is your husband aware of your bit on the side OP?

I'm loving the little details about being a non 'sex crazed ' librarian callled Marion. Because if you were an sales rep from Bedford called Julie our advice would be totally different.

Daily Fail fishing?

Get yourself a rabbit and DIY

I suggest you ask on a swingers website.

Hints and tips! Don't bother, maybe?

Go for it. You only get one go at life. Your marriage sounds boring, surely you should end that first though

Marion the lorry driver trying to lure mners into sharing swingers stories.

Well we always wear crotchless knickers and nipple tassels at our local swingers club.
Drinks usually include sherry or pints of snakebite.
Enjoy!

You know what, if I wanted tips on what to wear, drink and do at a swingers' party, and I had the whole of the internet at my fingertips, the FIRST place I would go would be to a parenting website called 'Mumsnet'.

Yes. Definitely