Hi, I know this might sound a bit odd and please dont judge me because this is something i've thought about a lot and i'm keen to do....i'd like some tips on going to a sex club with my friend with benefits.
i'm a married woman with an almost catatonic sex life within my marriage and my bit on the side wants me to go to a swingers club with him. I'm keen on the idea but would love some tips and advice. what does one wear? should one drink? should one indulge with others or stay on the sidelines? Obviously safe sex is a must. I know people will judge these places as sleazy but I'd like to hear from people in the know, not just the judgemental.
I've looked on websites run by several clubs but would love to hear any hints and tips from normal women who have been to ones in the south of England and any recommendations please. I hope i dont sound like a sex-crazed woman. i'm not. i work in my local library near London and i'm just looking for a bit of spice in my life! Marion.