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Partner of almost 5 weeks just snapped cos laptop isn't working correctly

27 replies

EnterNicknameHere · 27/01/2017 20:52

As title! I feel
Like I'm walking on eggshells all the time. But I love her, what do I do? I think I know the answer

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EnterNicknameHere · 27/01/2017 20:53

She just snapped at me because laptop won't load, I said yes that's why I want to sell it she still tried to blame the fault on me

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llangennith · 27/01/2017 20:55

After just five weeks she's this mean?!

TheresABluebirdOnMyShoulder · 27/01/2017 20:55

5 weeks?? Get rid. This is her on her very best behaviour. This early on should be a breeze and so much fun, there shouldn't be any arguments or stropping.

EnterNicknameHere · 27/01/2017 20:56

And she's taking the puss out of my tics although she knows I can't help it due to probable add or OCD, no diagnosis but my kids have the diagnosis

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EnterNicknameHere · 27/01/2017 20:56

Sorry five months I meant

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mrsnoon · 27/01/2017 20:56

Dump and run.

BreakfastAtSquiffanys · 27/01/2017 20:56

I wouldn't call someone my partner after only 5 weeks.
She won't get to Week 6 acting like that!

Mottlemoth · 27/01/2017 20:56

After 5 weeks? You really have to ask?! Dump. Now. Immediately.

mrsnoon · 27/01/2017 20:57

5 months? Still dump and run.

EnterNicknameHere · 27/01/2017 20:57

Probably asd I mean, sorry about typos

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Trustyourself2 · 27/01/2017 20:58

What did she say/do?

EnterNicknameHere · 27/01/2017 20:58

I know I should I always just think with people that it's all I deserve and I can't get anyone better and I get so lonely, I need a therapist or something 😢😢😢

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EnterNicknameHere · 27/01/2017 20:59

She said can I use laptop, I said sure it's there, she turned it on and went off in one cos the screen wasn't right, I said Ye that's why I don't use it and want rid. She said Ye sounds like u

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EnterNicknameHere · 27/01/2017 21:03

In the kitchen now cooking dinner after her offering for hours, guess I'm doing it then

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EnterNicknameHere · 27/01/2017 21:04

Can't be bothered with this this week, was told on tues tax creds stopped till April, I don't work how will I feed the kids??? I get dla for middle son in 3 weeks so will be fine then but horrible sad 3 weeks 😢

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KarmaNoMore · 27/01/2017 21:05

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SecretWitch · 27/01/2017 21:06

Honey, tuck and run. If she's like this at 5 weeks think about how she will be at 5 months and 5 years...

EnterNicknameHere · 27/01/2017 21:07

Nothing important in laptop no, she only got here at 5 after a week so I'm sure she could have done it at home

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EnterNicknameHere · 27/01/2017 21:08

She's known for weeks about the laptop because I've been complaining about taking it back because it's so slow. She wanted to look at jobs online which she could have doe. On either her or my phone or my iPad, nothing urgent

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EnterNicknameHere · 27/01/2017 21:10

And not seen her for a week

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HarmlessChap · 27/01/2017 21:15

Laptop aside if she is taking the piss out of your ticks then she's cruel and nasty, not worth bothering with.

Dump her, save yourself a lot of pain in the future

EnterNicknameHere · 27/01/2017 21:18

Oh she's took over cooking now, she must be feeling guilty

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EnterNicknameHere · 27/01/2017 21:20

I said to her that it's cruel as she has OCD and I'd never even mention her rituals as it's something she can't control she just said well it's annoying when you tick, guess I'm not the person for you then, I only tick very mildly every 6 month or so and only under pressure it's really not noticeable

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EnterNicknameHere · 27/01/2017 21:22

Must add she's under a lot of pressure too at the money as got made redundant in November

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EnterNicknameHere · 27/01/2017 21:24

And I so rarely tick it's like the very rare throat tick that's it

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