I have three children DD1 is 10 ,DD2 is 8 and DS is 6. Both my parents have been actively involved in their lives up to now. I went NC is sept when I realised the route of my mum behaviour was that she was a narcissist. I explained to them that she did something not nice to me and just like I tell them to stay away from people who are mean to you, I am doing the same. Sadly my sister appears to also be a narcissist and so I have gone NC with her too.
The children have a had a week with my parents at half term without me and are going to spend a week with them from boxing day onwards. From then on I have decided to go full NC and not agree to the children having contact with them either.
But how do explain to them at the ages they are so they understand. They have no relationship with their father or his side. So it will just be me and the kids.
Help?
My 10 and 8 year olds are very switched on and won't take any crap.