Tonight dh mentions he wants to go to a salon tomorrow to get his hair done, and to look for an outfit for his work do next weekend, I said ok we talked about various different hairstyles and I said seems like your just thinking about yourself this weekend, (as we have loads of Xmas shopping to do and still need to take ds to a certain barbers) We've just had a massive argument over that comment. I meant it in a way we have lots to do, he's saying he never buys anything for himself etc and how I brought myself a new coat a few weeks back (wow). He's stormed off naming other things we've argued about recently, says how ungrateful I am, and that I'm not a normal person! Just feel like I've had enough. At first we did try resolving it I tried telling him what I meant but he was twisting and just wouldn't drop it felt like he wanted to argue..