So, have been exchanging messages with someone over the phone, met online.
After few weeks offered him to meet up, he was up for it.
Agreed for the 7th of December.
Yesterday I texted him to double check if he is still available to meet.
He texted back saying his friend from another country came and he has been invited for a meal at 8:30, so he could allocate me only 30 min before going to see his friend. Or he is happy to change for Thursday.
My reply was for him not to worry about Wednesday and enjoy his time with a friend and for me being busy on Thursday.
He know I can't do on Thursdays, and I dont want to be rushed while meeting someone. I felt like someone is offering me some of his time so I could shut up... or am I exaggerating?
He appologised and explained that he only found out about it over the weekends. But every single time he offers something, he doesn't follow it through and finds an excuse.
My question is:
Am I right to trust my gut feelings and not wanting to meet up with him anymore?
Have I been just played pathetically?