I'm pretty sure what this points to but I would like reassurance I'm not going crazy as this is an EA relationship and many times in the past he has gaslighted and made me doubt myself.
I will be leaving his lying arse, just need to get a few things in place first before I confront him and leave.
We have been together two years now. As I don't trust him one bit I had a look on his FB to see he had blocked a woman 8 days after my son was born in June this year. I thought that was odd so unblocked her to see if she would message him. A week later they are now messaging! So the conversation was just innocent to begin with, talking about her working night shifts for the past 6 months. He said I bet your fella isn't happy with you working nights. She replied not really. He then replied "is this the guy you were with when we used to bang lol" she replied yea. He deleted a message to quickly for me to read but the next thing said by her was "yep it's awkward atm" to which he replied "maybe we should meet up lol" either she hasn't replied or they are now texting not sure.
Someone please tell me I'm not going crazy and by the sounds of it they have been sleeping together while we were together??? Why block a woman in June this year if there was nothing going on. I doubt they were banging more than two years ago otherwise he would have deleted/blocked her sooner.
I want to get this straight in my mind so he can't gaslight me once again. I hate this man so much now. Me and my son will be so much happier without him!!!