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my boyfriend ignore me.. do i have a chance?

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cheonsa · 26/10/2016 09:45

we've been dating for 6 months.. and its been a month he changed so much.. doesn't want to spend time with me anymore everytime i ask him to meet (always with his friends or prefer to be alone).. didn't text me like he used to only read and will reply if i asked him and not engage to conversation.. and the worst last monday he got lots of trouble with work because his friend come to his office n made scene.. i was trying to cheer him up but he didn't read my messages until now, but i saw he online on whatsapp.. am being clingy n needy to ask him to reply my messages? i love him so much n his behavior make me insecure.. i used to be independent

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CauliflowerSqueeze · 28/10/2016 09:33

Fetchez is spot on.

squishee · 30/10/2016 19:35

DO NOT send him a letter. You will only be on hot coals wondering if / how he's going to reply. Don't do it to yourself. Everyone here has said that you are worth far better. Believe it please!

WilburIsSomePig · 30/10/2016 20:52

He's telling you who he really is, listen to him.

I was ghosted by an ex a few years ago. Had spent the weekend together as usual, he gets up and leaves for work on the Monday - usual love yous etc. Says he'll ring me later as we're due to be meeting friends. Nothing. Not a word. I thought all sorts had happened to him, he didn't tell friends what was happening, I just stopped existing to him. After three years together that was how he chose to end it.

Oh and 6 months later came crawling back saying it was all a terrible mistake. Damn right it was.

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