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am I the only one who just doesn't believe that all men are into porn?

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wannaBeWhateverIWannaBe · 09/02/2007 11:12

of course some are, and of course in a lot of relationships it is a problem, and indeed in some it isn't, but I really just don't believe that most men buy/download/possess porn of some kind as has been suggested on here many times.

so am I the only one who believes this? I know my dh certainly doesn't have any.

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Pages · 09/02/2007 13:24

DH doesn't like it at all. And I had an ex who didn't.

FluffyMummy123 · 09/02/2007 13:25

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Dior · 09/02/2007 13:27

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mumto3girls · 09/02/2007 13:27

Icod...what makes you say that?

FluffyMummy123 · 09/02/2007 13:30

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Dior · 09/02/2007 13:32

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mumto3girls · 09/02/2007 13:34

Icod Therefore your post should read ' I think you lot are kidding yourselves' NOT 'you lot are kidding yourselves...' As it is your opinion and you haven't actual proof that all our DPs or DHs are secretly craving porn and lying about it.

FluffyMummy123 · 09/02/2007 13:36

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mumto3girls · 09/02/2007 13:36

Thank you.

OrmIrian · 09/02/2007 13:37

DH doesn't have any - just an album of photos of me . I've never found anything else and I'm fairly sure he hasn't got any stashed away. But I wouldn't be surprised if he still enjoyed looking at it when he got the chance.

FluffyMummy123 · 09/02/2007 13:38

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Booboobedoo · 09/02/2007 13:39

Inclined to agree with cod, and not just about men either. Sex is fascinating, and aren't any of you curious to see what other people look like when they're having sex?

At all?

I agree with the OP that of course there are men who aren't interested in porn, but I'd guess it's the exception rather than the rule.

FluffyMummy123 · 09/02/2007 13:40

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foxinsocks · 09/02/2007 13:41

ah cod, I thought of you when this thread was started (err not in a pornographic way of course)

all men are different but there really are, genuinely, some men who aren't that interested in it

ShowOfHands · 09/02/2007 13:42

My DH is not interested in porn and I actually think he would be highly offended by Cod's comments that this makes him a liar. Why is it so surprising? It doesn't mean he doesn't like sex or women.

foxinsocks · 09/02/2007 13:45

Noooooooooooooooooooooo booboobedoo

I'm not in the least bit interested to see what other people look like when they are having sex

Bugsy2 · 09/02/2007 13:45

LOL, surely it is a case of some do, some don't. I think most men have an appreciation of the female body.
Also depends on your definition of porn. For some people it is page 3 of the Sun for others it has to be more hardcore images.

anniemac · 09/02/2007 13:46

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FluffyMummy123 · 09/02/2007 13:49

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Fimbo · 09/02/2007 13:51

My dh is not into porn, tabloid newspapers and nor does he wXXk.

mumto3girls · 09/02/2007 13:51

I'm not saying that my DP wouldn't appreciate a picture of a good looking girl, like Dior mentioned, he used to buy FHM before we got together but doesn't bother now.
He can't access the internet at work and doesn't use it much at home..( I'm always on it). We're very upfront about what is a turn on and what isn't and I wouldn't necessarily have a problem if he wanted to watch some soft stuff either with me or alone ( if it had no detrimental effect on our sex life or relationship in general) but he just doesn't want to.
I just think perhaps it's something that you can really get in to or not like Playstation games etc some people can't stay away and others don't understand the attraction to something that isn't real.

magnolia1 · 09/02/2007 13:52

Dh once looked at a few naughty pics on the net and got a virus The poor bugger got such a telling off (about the virus not the porn) that he ever did it again and he is so computer illiterate that he has no idea how to hid eit anyway and he knows that I know how to search every inch of the computer if I want!

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