Do you still fancy your dp if they have put an enormous amount of weight on & dont look after themselves?

[PeppasNanna]

Just that really.

17 years. 4 dc. Dps weight is a serious concern to me. He won't talk about it.

I don't know how much he weighs. He wears a 48" trouser. Hes wearing xxxxl clothes.

He wore 34" trouser when I met him.

I was a size 8 when I met him. I'm an 8/10 now. We're in our 40's.

Our relationship is in trouble, has been for ages but now he keeps blaming my lack of interest in sex. I physically, dont fancy him.

I can't tell him that. I feel bad. I feel guilty.

How do I move forward? Get through this?

No I wouldn't to be honest

I overeat when I'm unhappy. My friend does a heat tilt and says Are you eating your feelings again? And I usually am.
You've said he uses food for comfort. Maybe it's time to see whether he's unhappy - if he'll even go there.
I don't fancy DH much when his moobs are bigger than my tits tbh. I can't help it - I'm physically repulsed by big ole hairy man tits. Plain and simple.

Head tilt.