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Original poster

Help child porn on pc.

46 replies

user1469380647 · 16/08/2016 01:49

Further to my is he lying thread and a bit more digging i have discovered 13 year old porn on pc.
His craftily deleted it after i asked him how it got there and said his going to replace hard drive.
Also tried to blame dd for looking it up.
told me id be arrested as well as its family computer.
What do i do he said it was accidental but im not sure i believe him.

OP posts:
MissBeaHaving · 16/08/2016 01:54

I haven't read your other thread sorry op.
Ring the police,let them decide,
Please don't go messing with it yourself.
It sounds from your post that this man is a liar & untrustworthy ?

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 16/08/2016 01:58

Phone the police

MiaowJario · 16/08/2016 02:09

Phone the police, pronto.

Redglitter · 16/08/2016 02:11

Phone the police before he gets rid of the hard drive.

fanniboz · 16/08/2016 02:13

Phone the police if you haven't already, and do it fast

Edie30 · 16/08/2016 02:15

Call the police ASAP

NerrSnerr · 16/08/2016 02:28

Yep, call the police. It's the only option. How old is your daughter as you are going to have to consider her safety too.

Bambooshoots14 · 16/08/2016 02:28

Hope you've called the police

RonaldMcDonald · 16/08/2016 02:31

Phone the police immediately and call a friend to come hold your hand

Atenco · 16/08/2016 02:37

Another one here saying phone the police

Original poster
user1469380647 · 16/08/2016 02:45

waiting for a phone call rang 101 and she said Sargent had to review it and ring me back.
his now threatening suicide the police heard him being abusive on the phone.

OP posts:
Edie30 · 16/08/2016 03:05

Well done. You did the right thing.
Ignore his threats. It's good the police heard him.

discoballfever · 16/08/2016 04:07

How are you op

fanniboz · 16/08/2016 08:05

Well done OP. You're doing the right thing. As pp said, don't listen to his threats, think of the poor kid in those photos. Sorry you're in this mess Flowers

MrsUnderwood · 16/08/2016 08:07

Well done, ignore the suicide threats, it's just another way to try and control you.

Mishegoss · 16/08/2016 09:38

You've done the right thing. Ignore his hysteria.

FreeFromHarm · 16/08/2016 09:52

So glad you called the police, the hysteria is just so you stay on his side , you have done the right thing , on top of everything else you have found, hope you are ok OP

DaDman66 · 16/08/2016 11:14

Calling the police was the right thing to do.
The suicide threats were most likely to stop you reporting it.

He needs putting away. Hope you're okay, considering.

furryminkymoo · 16/08/2016 13:20

If he is threatening suicide then there is much more to uncover than just that photo....

Can you call a friend to come over? if you were my friend I would be over there making you a drink and distracting you currently.

Lacystacie · 16/08/2016 13:33

Are you OK op ?

Throughgrittedteeth · 16/08/2016 13:45

How old is your DD op? Please don't put yourself or her at risk over this. You've done thie right thing, just wait for the police to deal with it now xx

Iamdobby63 · 16/08/2016 13:46

I'm so sorry, this is awful for you.

You are very brave and have done the right thing.

Hope you are ok.

SuckingEggs · 16/08/2016 13:48

He's a pervert.

Well done OP. Hope you're ok.

And - maybe pedantic - not child porn but child abuse images.

DaDman66 · 16/08/2016 14:14

Funkyminky is right, there's probably a whole heap of shit to unfold yet.
You did well reporting it. Stay strong.

user1470834869 · 16/08/2016 14:16

No such thing as child porn. It's images of child sexual abuse.

Leave the house and call the police. Anything beyond that makes you culpable