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Help child porn on pc.

46 replies

user1469380647 · 16/08/2016 01:49

Further to my is he lying thread and a bit more digging i have discovered 13 year old porn on pc.
His craftily deleted it after i asked him how it got there and said his going to replace hard drive.
Also tried to blame dd for looking it up.
told me id be arrested as well as its family computer.
What do i do he said it was accidental but im not sure i believe him.

OP posts:
WellErrr · 16/08/2016 14:21

Well done for phoning the police. The sick fucker.

You've done the right thing Flowers

Reindeerlily · 16/08/2016 14:29

Hope you're ok op. What an awful thing to have discovered. Sending a virtual hug.

Summersun5789 · 16/08/2016 14:35

Well done.

Majority of time police will examin the computer

If there is no other "child porn" then nothing is usually done. police are aware some porn sites when you click on a video opens up a new page and you can be inundated with inappropriate porn

The only time it's a bigger issue e.g. Is when someone has been searching etc and downloaded know illegal porn,

If it's innocent the police will work it out

Summersun5789 · 16/08/2016 14:40

Leave the house and call the police. Anything beyond that makes you culpable

Only necessary if you are worried about your safety

I worked with the police - I am not a police officer , (for 15 years),

But the police are not silly they will look at computer and possibly tablets, phones etc

They will only arrest if they believe someone has been actively looking at illegal porn.

DraeneiMage · 16/08/2016 14:46

Flowers for you
Stay strong

Vn18393 · 16/08/2016 14:54

Please go. You have a daughter and not saying these are his intentions, but if he's looking up that kind of stuff than chances may be that he looks at her in a sexual way.

Let the police find it out. I think he is guilty as if it was an honest mistake I don't think he would threaten suicide or try to pass blame. He would express his disgust in what he found and be genuinely supprised, not acting like he needs to find a way out.

AyeAmarok · 16/08/2016 15:48

You need to just hand everything to the police and let them deal with it. Don't implicate yourself in it. If he's done nothing wrong, the police will be able to see that.

Chocolatefudgecake100 · 16/08/2016 16:31

His reaction proves his guilt hes an obvious paedophile and he needs put away there was only one option here op phoning the police was the right thing and only thing to do

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost · 16/08/2016 16:39

The dirty beast. You've absolutely done the right and only thing you could have done.
Fully agree with user 147. About there being no such thing as child porn. Porn is consensual. Children dont and can't consent to porn. It's sickening and terrifying images of abuse.
He deserves everything he gets. Also you can't look up things by accident.

skatesection · 16/08/2016 16:42

If he's threatening suicide, you need to call the cops again and let them know about that too, so they can come in case he is serious. Hope you're alright.

WombOfOnesOwn · 16/08/2016 19:47

All pornography is images of sexual abuse. Child pornography is images of child sexual abuse.

WombOfOnesOwn · 16/08/2016 19:48

Plenty of pornography on normal websites is FAR from "consensual." My god, the things people believe because it's too painful to realize their husbands are wanking to images of coerced sex.

WamBamThankYouMaam · 16/08/2016 20:22

Oh for God's sake, all porn is not images of sexual abuse. Please keep your ridiculous comments for somewhere they may be vaguely appropriate Womb

I've never accidentally downloaded images of children. I don't really know that it's happened to any of my friends either. And we all watch porn. His reaction is not conclusive proof of guilt, although it likely is because there's more to it. I'm so sorry.

You've done the right thing in calling the police. Let them examine the computer and any other devices and come to their conclusions.

Atenco · 16/08/2016 20:38

If pornography is so consensual and prostitution a great lark, why are so many women tricked in becoming prostitutes and kept prisoners in the process?

WamBamThankYouMaam · 16/08/2016 21:09

Atenco

Why not start a thread on that, rather than hijacking the thread of the OP, who has posted for some support. It's completely inappropriate.

NerrSnerr · 16/08/2016 21:18

I agree with wam. This is not the thread for these debates. The OP needs support, not a porn/ prostitution debate.

GipsyDanger · 16/08/2016 21:20

I read your last thread. Cut this man lose. He promised you it was only ever on his computer at his house. He has lied to you. He has probably got off to those images at your house. I seriously doubt he would commit suicide, but even so, that it not your fault. The man has many many issues that aren't yours to solve.

LIZS · 16/08/2016 21:23

Is this the same one as was arrested at the weekend ? If so how dare he implicate you and your dc. Yes it will be seized (hence why there may be no updates) and you need to speak to police without him. You really need to safeguard your teenaged dc against this vile man. He's no friend .

KickAssAngel · 16/08/2016 21:28

A friend found some child abuse pics on her DH's laptop. She took it straight to the police. At no point was she implicated in the subsequent investigation and conviction. Don't believe him. He's lying to scare you.

It is very worrying that you have a DD of that age - get rid of him.

BifsWif · 16/08/2016 22:10

You absolutely did the right thing calling the police. I hope you're ok OP Flowers

imwithspud · 16/08/2016 22:28

You did the right thing op, stay strong and safe. Ignore is hysteria, he's trying to manipulate you. Call a friend over if you can for supportFlowers

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